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It's my birthday, after all. Well. Sort of.
Holy shitballs.
Iāve officially been publishing Drunk Business Advice for a year.
In that time, Iāve personally written 52 issues totaling 81,196 words.
(Yes, I counted.)
To celebrate this bizarre achievement, I could share some super tactical takeaways for those of you who may be nibbling on a newsletter idea, or happen to work the space.
And I will ā at some point in the near future.
This is a business advice newsletter, after all. And it will stay that way.
But for today, I want to get up-close-and-personal about what the last year has really been like for me.
Just writing this in the privacy of my living room hits like standing naked in front of a crowd⦠I canāt imagine how hitting āsendā is going to feel. š¬
Nonetheless, itās time for my confessions.
Ok, first confession ā I still have a crush on Usher. š Source: Tenor
P.S. ā I gotta shout out Christina Nicholson from Media Maven for referring 20 new subscribers to Drunk Business Advice in the last month! Youāre š„!
I used to think⦠š
ā¼ļø I used to think writing was about sharing what I know. But over the last year, Iāve realized that itās more about challenging what I know.
ā¼ļø I used to think I'd run out of stories. I never do. I continue to live. I continue to work. I continue to f*ck up. So Iāll never run out. A blessing and a curse, I guess.
ā¼ļø I used to think I wouldnāt be able to write if I wasnāt āin the moodā. But like any skill that one works diligently to master, I can force myself to do it ā even when I donāt want to. And yāall canāt tell the difference.
ā¼ļø I used to think this newsletter needed to overflow with practical value. And while I still work my ass off to deliver value, I feel like sometimes the real job of Drunk Business Advice is to just make readers feel⦠lighter.
ā¼ļø I used to think people would unsubscribe if I got too personal. And some did. But most leaned in.
ā¼ļø I used to think that being vulnerable made me weak. It doesnāt ā it makes me trustworthy. And thereās nothing in the world harder to earn than trust. Iām pissed at myself for only just now figuring this out.
This has been challenging in ways I never dreamed it would be š
ā¼ļø I feel physically ill every time I hit āsendā, and that feeling doesnāt fade until someone replies positively. (Seriously, if you ever want to make a newsletter publisherās day, hit reply and tell them you like it. Thereās no better relief.)
ā¼ļø Thereās a difference between being relatable and being performatively self-deprecating. Iām still learning where that line is.
ā¼ļø Iāve cried writing these stories. More than once. And more during the happy parts than the sad parts.
ā¼ļø Iāve accidentally written about things I hadnāt even admitted to myself yet. This has become the most unencumbered form of personal discovery Iāve ever experienced.
ā¼ļø Thereās a cost to being visible. People have said really shitty things to me. People have also shown admiration in inappropriate ways that make me cringingly uncomfortable. I canāt even imagine what real public figures have to endure.
ā¼ļø Publishing Drunk Business Advice has forced me to examine the impact I want to leave on this world far more than any other job ever has. Itās wildly confronting.
ā¼ļø While I donāt care about audience size as much as I care about connection, Iām dramatically behind the pace I thought Iād grow. Iād love a bigger audience of people who connect with my writing. But Iām trying to be patient.
ā¼ļø Iāve declined many offers to work on interesting projects that pay a shit-ton of money so I could focus on publishing Drunk Business Advice for free ā long before I ever earned a cent from this newsletterā¦
ā¦But thanks to my dear friend Jesus Vargas, Iām now actually earning some cents. He has taken a huge risk bringing on his badass software agency as Drunk Business Adviceās first sponsor. š
Jesus was also brave enough to share his absolutely bonkers life story with us last week. Heās a fascinating dude, and if youāre considering any kind of software implementation for your business, go chat with him.
You have my word that Jesus and his team at LowCode Agency will take excellent care of you.
But itās also been profoundly gratifying
ā¼ļø Every time someone replies to an email and says āthis helped me,ā it fills me with the energy of a thousand suns.
ā¼ļø Saying āI f*cked upā āin publicā is weirdly powerful.
ā¼ļø There are super successful people who look forward to this newsletter every week. That blows my mind.
ā¼ļø Thereās a deep, surprising peace in doing something that aligns with your values every damn week. It recalibrates everything.
ā¼ļø Iāve met some of the most interesting, thoughtful, supportive, and funny people Iāve ever known through this scrappy little newsletter.
ā¼ļø Iāve also reconnected with incredible people I hadnāt spoken to in years ā all because they saw an issue of Drunk Business Advice, and reached out to say hello.
ā¼ļø Iāve had strangers quote my own words back to me in conversations, and refer to Drunk Business Advice as āDBAā. Being quoted and acronymized makes me feel like a god.
ā¼ļø My inbox has become a sanctuary for other peopleās confessions. People have poured their souls out to me after reading issues that resonated with them. That feels sacred. And Iām deeply honored.
So whatās next?
Iām fixinā to embark on a pretty chaotic few months.
In nine days, Iāll be undergoing a major surgery which will leave me immobile for most of the summer, and will take a year to fully recover from.
(This surgery is a very good thing for me, and is correcting a cocktail of painful orthopedic conditions that my years of competitive figure skating have plagued me with).
But donāt worry! Drunk Business Advice will still be landing in your inbox every Sunday ā still written 100% by me.
I just have a shit-ton of writing to finish before getting sawed in half by two of the finest surgeons at the top-rated orthopedic hospital in the country. š¤
Dr. Nawabi & Dr. Sink ā my life is in your (hopefully steady) hands! These two are the absolute best in the field, and the entire team at HSS here in NYC has been stellar. š
But after a few weeks of oxy-induced haze restful recovery, I'll be back at my laptop, charging into year two of Drunk Business Advice with enough vigor to power the Empire State Building.
So what does year two look like?
More writing courses like Rebel Scribes
More community building like Stealth Mastermind
A new (bonus) newsletter about business storytelling
And maybe evenā¦
Donāt get too excited. I mocked this up in Canva.
But yes, Iām working on a book. ā„ļø
(And yes, Iām probably jinxing myself into oblivion by putting āWSJ Bestsellerā on my silly mockup. But hey, I can dream.)
Whether youāve been with me since the beginning, or youāve only recently joined the Drunk Business Advice party ā thank you. š
Thank you for trusting me with a coveted place in your overcrowded inbox. Iāll never take that for granted.
Hereās to another year of:

I asked Stealth Mastermind to describe Drunk Business Advice in a single sentence. Gabe wins.
Cheers! š»
-Kristin :-)
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Whether you need help building an MVP, creating software to run your business, or even just a badass website, I highly recommend the savvy team over at LowCode!